Hello, Seeker. I wish to give you my thoughts on the Sith Code. Read them, Seeker, and form your own thoughts. Never take my word as concrete, but anything you find that resonates with you is yours to keep.
Peace is a lie, there is only Passion
Conflict is inevitable. Even avoiding conflict causes inner turmoil, as conflict avoidant people suffer injustices to keep the illusion of peace. And while conflict, when violent, should not be purposely sought unless necessary, non-violent conflict is more often than not incredibly positive.
In a broad context, conflict is what brought minorities the rights they enjoy today. The battle is far from over in this aspect, but many victories have been rightfully claimed. While the Civil War in the US is an example of violent conflict bringing an ultimately good outcome, the Civil Rights Act was born of (mostly) non-violent conflict. To say the Civil Rights Movement was without violent conflict would be ignorant at best, much of the movement was non-violent. Sit ins, civil disobedience, protest, speeches, and legislation were non-violent.
The ultimate wins of unions were an alternative to violence. The collective bargaining process and the use of strikes are the non-violent compromise to breaking down the boss’s door in the middle of the night. However, these are still, by nature and definition, conflict.
On a more personal level, therapy is conflict. You are working with your therapist to identify areas of thought and behavior that you seek to change. Processing trauma is inner conflict. Disagreements with an intimate partner are conflict, and compromise brings resolution to the conflict.
All change is wrought by conflict. Rights were fought for, not freely given. Peace is an illusion, a powerful tool of the oppressor to convince you to be content with your oppression. And these struggles, these conflicts, are fueled by Passion.
Through Passion, I gain Strength
Passion. Love. Vigorous agreement. The will to proceed, to fight, to keep moving forward. Passion is instrumental to change, self betterment, and the success of the world. For a moment, imagine a world without passionate people. Boring, isn’t it? People without passion rarely make history, and even those who don’t make history still have passion in their own way.
Passion is the fire within you that drives you towards your goal. Passion is the reason you don’t give up when you face an obstacle. Passion is the reason you overcome obstacles. Passion is the reason you get up after you’ve been knocked down. Passion is not just love, though love makes up a great deal of passion. Passion is your human desire to survive.
Your career, your physical fitness, your hobbies, your loved ones – all of these are examples of things that can, and often will, make you feel passion. Further, the more passionate you are about your particular cause, belief, or goal, the more likely you are to achieve it. Have you ever read one of those stories about a mother summoning the strength to lift a car to free her trapped child? Passion gives you Strength, both literally and figuratively.
Through Strength, I gain Power
Strength can be easily defined by those of you who enjoy role playing games, such as Dungeons & Dragons. Strength itself is a stat, but your constitution and wisdom stats also encompass strength. Strength is not just physical power, but mental and emotional fortitude, problem solving and critical thinking, and health.
Physical power is important to everyday life, but without the other facets, is just brute, dumb force. No direction, destroying everything in its path. This kind of strength can be momentarily admirable, but it is a flame that burns quickly. Your physical strength is important to maintain, and is often directly linked with all other types of strength – a decaying musculature will lead to brain fog and poor cardiovascular and respiratory health. But it is not the be-all-end-all of strength.
Mental and emotional fortitude, when properly maintained, give you the ability to navigate the world in true Sith fashion. You see things the way they are – through the lies of politicians, religious leaders, and corporate parasites. You’re better at reading people; understanding their true motives and being more resistant to manipulation. This also tends to lead you to have greater empathy – more on this in the next paragraph. You’re able to better control your emotions, to navigate your personal life with care and be the steady rock your loved ones depend on. This fortitude is fairly similar to the benefits of being strong in problem solving and critical thinking. Touching on seeing through lies, you’re better able to resist propaganda. Understanding that no one, even you, are immune to propaganda is an incredibly important critical thinking skill. Being able to examine the news and see the truth behind the curtain is invaluable. Removing your focus from the culture war nonsense those with fragile egos and an untamed lust for power want you to be distracted by while they remove your rights and steal your money is one of the hallmarks of a true Sith.
You may have seen my comment that a quality of strength is a developed sense of empathy, and thought – why would a Sith wish to feel empathy? The answer is that a Sith strives to be intelligent, powerful, and each day better than the last. A Sith is not a monster, and should any monster claim the mantle of Sith, a true Sith will recognize them as a charlatan. But, you ask, how does this make a Sith different from a Jedi? This is a more nuanced answer, but the short is that a Sith has a more developed sense of empathy, while a Jedi does not inwardly examine it. A Sith is ultimately selfish, and the truth is that a developed, educated, and prosperous society allows a Sith to truly live to their full potential.
Finally, we have health. Without your health, you have nothing. Without honing your other areas of strength, you have no health. Everything is intertwined, and recognizing this complexity is necessary for all Sith. You must eat balanced meals, seek medical help when you’re sick or injured, drink plenty of water, and stay away from poisonous substances. Additionally, your mental health is just as important. Rest, socialize with friends, bathe yourself, keep your living area clean. If you maintain all aspects of your strength, you will have Power – over yourself, and over the world.
Through Power, I gain Victory
Power is not simply political or economic. There are aspects of power present, but true power lies much smaller in scale. While a Sith may aspire to political or economic power – and rightfully, all Sith should at least somewhat, even if that doesn’t mean being an executive or politician – power is directly linked to respect.
Just as one cannot fully love another without first loving themselves, a Sith cannot gain respect if they do not first respect themselves. This lies partially in the last paragraph of strength, but has more facets than just taking care of yourself. A Sith should strive to lead by example. Earn respect by treating those around you with respect. A Sith should educate themselves on a topic before speaking on it. A Sith should strive to seek out new information on every topic. A Sith should listen to the perspectives of those around them, as it furthers their own education. A Sith should fiercely protect those they love, as they are the greatest source of and fuel for passion. By treating those around you with respect, it will show that you respect yourself as well.
While this will not always be possible, a Sith should strive to be the smartest, strongest, most powerful person in the room. A Sith should also know their limitations. Many people often speak louder when they realize they’re wrong. A Sith should know how to admit it.
All of this is to say that a Sith should have power over themselves. A Sith should always remain in control, and by doing so, outward power naturally follows. And when one finally gains and successfully retains power over themselves, there is no situation in which they won’t be Victorious.
Through Victory, my chains are broken
Victory, simply defined, is achieving your goals. Living as you want to live, in all aspects of life. Victory over the big things – getting handed your diploma, the keys to your new house, saying “I do”, rearing children, landing your dream job – to victory over the small things – eating your favorite meal, spending time with your pet, telling the ones you love that you love them, and for some even just waking up.
Sith should have goals in all aspects of life. Setting big goals can drive us to achieve things we never dreamed of, and setting small goals keep us going along the way. Think of each of your big goals as the top of a ladder, and each of your small goals as a rung on the way up. It may sound silly or childish to say, but waking up each day is a goal for all of us – a more visible goal for some of us than others. For those of you whom waking up is a visible goal, Sith or otherwise, I’m personally proud of you for each day you achieve that goal. Every time you feel yourself slipping, hear me cheering you on, telling you that I believe you can make it to the morning.
Victory is the outcome of each conflict, for one side or another. Often, victory breeds further conflict. It all ties together – peace is an illusion, as even in quiet times, conflict brews. This does not mean that we should avoid victory, but that no fight is ever entirely over. And everything worth having is worth fighting for.
Every building block of the Sith code is required to reach victory. You must practice each step to reach it. Missing even one part of the code will cause victory to slip out of your hands. But with each victory you get under your belt a chain holding you back is broken.
The Force shall free me
Your chains are all that prevent you from being true to yourself. Each person has many chains, and they are both imposed by others and by ourselves. We struggle with body image, eating disorders, mental illness, physical illness, and disability. We struggle with impatience, trauma, imposter syndrome, and fears. We face government oppression, economic insecurity, food insecurity, and infrastructure breakdown.
Not every chain can be broken. But just as victory is never truly final, this does not mean we shouldn’t try to break as many as we can. You break your chains by recognizing your capabilities and shortcomings. A Sith is to break those they can themselves, seek assistance to break others, and seek support for those that cannot be broken. Each victory breaks a chain, and while it may be true that a new chain takes its place, or more chains are revealed, this only gives us more opportunity to break chains. Each obstacle should be faced with Passion, Strength, and Power. Only then will a Sith ever break their chains and be truly Free.